NOTE: “Onesimus, a slave of Philemon, had stolen from his master and run away to Rome. There he came in contact with Paul (who was under house arrest, Acts 28:16-30) and with the claims of Jesus Christ...Paul sends him back with this letter in hand, urging Philemon to extend forgiveness.”"

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1. Paul’s Intercession: Paul presented five appeals as he interceded for Onesimus — (a) Philemon’s reputation of love and faith (vv.5-7), (b) Basis of Christian love (v.9), (c) Conversion of Onesimus (v.10), (d) Onesimus was valuable to Paul (vv.11-13), (e) the Providence of God (vv.15-16). When we want to be a mediator or an intercessor, we need to have a thorough understand of the whole situation (e.g. the parties involved, their situation, their personalities and backgrounds, the basis for reconciliation, the role God plays in the situation, etc.). Recall one of those situation(s) when you were a mediator, how did you approach the situation? Would your approach be any different if you follow the pattern of Paul’s intercession for Onesimus? How so?

2. Paul’s Perspective: Paul looked at the situation from a heavenly/eternal perspective, “Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back for good...as a dear brother...” (vv.15-16). It’s similar to what Joseph told his brothers regarding their selling him to Egypt, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives” (Gen. 50:20). Reflect upon some of the trials or adversities in your life, how would viewing them from a heavenly/eternal perspective change your understanding of those situations?

3. Paul’s Love: Paul did not just love with words or tongue, but with actions and in truth (cf. 1 Jn. 3:18). He was willing to pay for whatever Onesimus owed Philemon (vv.18-19). Love often requires sacrifices. Reflect upon some of the closer relationships that you have, in what ways have you sacrificed for them? Think of practical ways that you could love sacrificially for your love ones (e.g. walk an extra mile to serve them, affirm or encourage them, buy a gift, write a card, spend quality time with them, humble yourself and apologize, etc.). Try practicing these ideas in the coming months.

4. Your own insight: (fill in yourself)

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Meditation and Application:

Meditate on the above questions along with the necessary actions. Pray for wisdom and courage as you practice sacrificial love in the coming months.​

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*Talk thru the Bible by Bruce Wilkinson & Kenneth Boa

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